The last time I had sex with my husband was on our honeymoon four years ago

DEAR DEIDRE: THE last time I had sex with my husband was on our honeymoon four years ago and I feel so rejected.

He has erection problems due to him having diabetes.

We used to have a great sex life but he was diagnosed not long after our wedding and started taking medication for the diabetes.

He won’t talk to the doctor about our sex life.

I’m a 40-year-old woman and I long to be loved and touched. He’s 42 and he’s just stubborn. He won’t even cuddle me in bed.

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DEIDRE SAYS: He might feel humiliated but tell him not to let embarrassment spoil your relationship.

His doctor will be able to offer help. He can also find support through Diabetes UK (, 0345 123 2399).

My e-leaflet on Solving Erection Problems explains self-help but remember there are many ways other than intercourse for you both to enjoy satisfying sex.

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