I think my straight friend is dropping hints to me that he might be gay too – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: MY straight friend will mess around with me when we’re drunk but can’t look me in the eye even then.

I don’t know what it means.

I am a gay guy of 27 and he is 29. We met doing our first jobs. We’ve both left that firm since but stayed mates.

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Before lockdown we’d meet for a night out and get wrecked.

I live centrally so he’d come back to mine to crash for the night.

He’d get sexual with me but it was as if he tried to pretend he wasn’t really there.

He wouldn’t look at me and or mention it in the morning.

I haven’t seen him for weeks but I think about him a lot.

Is he really gay?

DEIDRE SAYS: Our sexuality isn’t arranged in neat boxes.

He clearly has some gay feelings but not enough – or not enough that he wants to acknowledge – to identify as gay.

If going around with him would hold you back from meeting someone with whom you could share an open relationship, it’s best to have plenty of other social life too, once it’s allowed.

My e-leaflet of Gay Resources could help.

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