DEAR DEIDRE: ALTHOUGH I have previously never doubted my partner is my daughter’s dad, for some reason I had a sudden feeling about it the other day.
I sat myself down and worked out the dates, and I’m worrying that another guy is really her father.
I had a one-night stand with my now partner three years ago.
I’m 26 and he’s 28.
He went to work in Saudi Arabia days later and I hooked up with another lad.
When I found I was pregnant, I just assumed it was the first guy.
We’ve never lived together and he’s away more than he’s in the UK, but he was happy to have a daughter.
I love him to bits and his parents are lovely grandparents.
The other guy got married and has a son now.
He won’t want to know.
I don’t know what I’d do if he’s the dad.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Think hard before setting hares running.
Are you sure you understand pregnancy dating? Talk with your GP.
Your partner must think he is the dad, and what matters to your little girl is having a loving father figure and family.
But if questions could be raised, better the suggestion of DNA testing comes from you.
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