I love giving oral sex but my girlfriend refuses to pleasure me back

DEAR DEIDRE: I CAN’T remember the last time my girlfriend gave me oral sex. I really miss it.

We have been together for three years, I’m 27 and she’s 25. We used to have all kinds of adventurous sex and nothing was off-limits.


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Now it is just vanilla sex with no oral fun for me. Yet I love giving oral sex to her and she really loves it too.

She used to do it for me and kept it up until last year, though she’d never let me finish that way.

How can I get her interested again?

DEIDRE SAYS: You need to talk to her about what she enjoys and explain how much you miss oral sex.

Ask if there are any changes you could make to help her feel more comfortable and put her more in control. How is your own personal hygiene? Do you have a shower before having sex?

It would be wrong and counter-productive to pressurise her into something that she doesn’t like doing. But my e-leaflet on Tensions Over Oral Sex may help.

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