DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex wants to carry on as if nothing happened after he finished things with me for another woman.
We were planning our future together and he told me he had never loved anyone like he did me. He broke my heart.
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I’m 34 and my ex is 36.
He was with this woman for a few weeks but it all went wrong.
They no longer have any contact.
We have spoken a few times since they split up and now he is asking me to take him back.
How do I tell him there’s no way I can get back in his bed when he’s had another woman in it?
He says they didn’t have sex but I don’t know whether I believe him or if it’s just what he wants me to hear.
Will I ever be able to trust him again?
DEIDRE SAYS: He needs to fully appreciate he caused you significant pain and anguish.
To have any chance of moving on, this must be addressed.
Trust takes time to build and can be destroyed in a heartbeat.
My support pack Cheating – Can You Get Over It? shows how you can both move on and perhaps end up stronger than ever.
Give yourself a decent amount of time and if you are still struggling to trust him, you will know it is the moment to move on.
But remember, if you chose to give him another chance, you both have to leave it in the past.
No asking questions, as you will need a fresh start.
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